My New Book is Here!

It’s called How to Accept What You Cannot Change (aka the thing we all struggle with, but no one teaches us how to do).

People love to say, “When one door closes, another opens.” But the truth? Often, when something ends, the next door doesn’t magically appear.

You land in the hallway, that uncertain space between what was and what’s next.

This book is your light in that hallway.

Available Since October 7, 2025

What This Book Won’t Do:

  • Fix your grief. Because grief isn’t something to fix.

  • Give you a neat timeline. Because there isn’t one.

  • Replace therapy, doctors, or support groups if you need them.

  • Promise that it’ll be easy.

  • Pretend that I have all the answers.

This book won’t tell you to “move on” or “just be strong.”

Instead, it will:

  • Give you language for what feels impossible to explain.

  • Help you see that what you’re going through is normal, even when it feels anything but.

  • Offer you a structure to lean on when you feel like you’re drowning.

  • Let you move at your own pace. No rushing. No timeline. Just permission.

  • Show you small ways forward, the kind that don’t erase your grief but help you carry it differently.

  • Remind you, again and again that you are not alone.

Since 2023 people have been raving about my course… so I finally decided to put it all in a book.

If we haven't met yet...

I’m Rianna, a serial entrepreneur & full-time traveler since 2011. Currently in Georgia, but nowhere for very long. Growing up, everyone said, ‘Pick one thing and stick with it.’ I tried, but honestly, it just wasn’t for me.

So, I decided to follow all my interests instead. Now, I’m running multiple businesses and living my dream life, traveling the world for the past 14 years.

But my journey wasn’t without loss. Infertility, grief, and an identity crisis forced me to confront a future I never chose. Everyone told me, “You just have to accept it.” But how do you accept something you never wanted?

I figured out a way, and that’s why I created the course and am now writing the book: "How to Accept What You Cannot Change". It's what I wish I had when I was in the darkest part of my journey, and dealing with the messy middle of loss, change, and rebuilding.

People love to say, “When one door closes, another opens.” But the truth? Often, when something ends, the next door doesn’t magically appear.

You land in the hallway, that uncertain space between what was and what’s next. This book is your light in that hallway.

Inside, you’ll find six gentle, practical steps to help you face reality without self-blame or pressure, and to give you language to feelings that feel impossible to explain.

No rushing. No forced positivity. Just honest guidance and hope, so you don’t feel that you're navigating all of this alone.

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