'M-day' Getaway
Isla Mujeres, Mexico | May 12 - 15, 2023
Mother’s Day (a.k.a. ‘M-day’) can be a difficult and emotional time when you are involuntarily childless. Whether it’s due to miscarriage, infertility, or circumstances, the pain of not being able to become a mother is profound. Trust me I know. It can be a daily struggle to come to terms with the grief, even when it’s been years.
Are you looking for a chance to relax, rejuvenate, and connect with other childless women in a beautiful beach setting? Look no further! This all-inclusive retreat is designed for women who are childless not by choice, and offers a supportive and inclusive environment for self-discovery, growth, and new connections with women who really get you.
You’ll have the opportunity to participate in a variety of activities, including yoga classes, a snorkeling tour, workshops and group sessions on the unique challenges of being a childless woman. You’ll also have plenty of free time to explore the local area, relax on the private beach, or simply unwind with a good book.
“The quality of your life, ultimately depends
on the quality of your relationships”
This retreat is located in a secluded beachfront property, with comfortable accommodations and delicious meals included. Where you’ll be able to experience the love and support of a community of like-minded women.
It’s the ultimate opportunity to take some time for yourself and connect with others who understand the unique experience of being childless not by choice, especially on days like these.
Book your spot today and get ready for an unforgettable (all-inclusive) experience!
Where you will be retreating 
The 'M-day' Getaway Program
Before
Friday
Saturday
Sunday
Monday
After
Before
I don’t know if you’re like me, but I’m very impatient to meet all of you! That’s why on April 18th at 1 pm New York Time we will come together on Zoom to get to know each other in an interactive and fun way!
Friday
Today’s topic is: “Disconnect to Reconnect”
* Arrival at Cancun International Airport
* Ferry to Isla Mujeres
* Check-in after 4 pm
* Afternoon Circle
* Dinner
Saturday
Today’s topic is: “Release & Surrender”
* Morning Circle
* Breakfast
* Free time
* Lunch
* Snorkeling tour
* Free time
* Afternoon Circle
* Dinner
Sunday
Today’s topic is: “Refocus & Renew”
* Morning Circle
* Breakfast
* Free time
* Lunch
* Free time
* Afternoon Circle
* Dinner
Monday
Today’s topic is: “Spread your Wings”
* Morning Circle
* Breakfast
* Free time
* Check-out at 11 am
* 12 pm ferry from Isla Mujeres to Cancun
After
After such a lovely weekend it will be hard to feel separated, that’s why we come together one more time on May 23th at 1 PM (New York Time) for a fun integration call.
Meet Your Host & Island Guide Rianna Hijlkema
My name is Rianna, originally from The Netherlands, but currently living in Argentina. I’m a multi-passionate serial entrepreneur living a nomadic life for the past 11 years. Traveling to 40+ countries and working on four continents has taught me to approach life (and business) with resourcefulness and resilience.
Sounds pretty good, right?
Yup, until infertility knocked on my door. The first 4 years I’ve kind of wasted my life (even though I was laying on white sandy beaches, hiking mountains and ‘living the life’) on the inside I felt so terribly lonely. Nowhere could I find friends who understood the challenges I was facing.
Along the way, I rediscovered my love for walking and connected with childless women all around the world. Those connections became a huge part of my recovery as I worked on my overall health and well-being. If I was a doctor I would prescribe friendships for everyone, but I’m not so… I provide opportunities instead!
And the ‘M-day Getaway’ is one of them!
This retreat is an opportunity to connect with women (like me!) who understand the triggers, confrontations and other emotions that arise on a day like this. Instead of dreading this day, we gonna create memories for a lifetime!
What Others Say About Working With Me...
"I am beyond grateful for your quality time and effort to guide me. You've inspired me to follow my heart and intuition as of lately.
Thank you for pushing me to really evaluate what I wanted, it helped so much.
Also thank you so much for your insights. Your words mean so much to me and just being around your energy fills me up with inspiration."
Thank you for pushing me to really evaluate what I wanted, it helped so much.
Also thank you so much for your insights. Your words mean so much to me and just being around your energy fills me up with inspiration."
Carolina M.
Student Master Therapy/Psychology
"I felt lost and emotionally out of balance. The support that Rianna gave me, was the perfect gift to help me move forward. The framework she is using clarified many things, which led to revelations during the week, which helped me make new decisions. Rianna guided me to open up the different layers and then helped me flip this information into something practical for the future. Rianna was a crucial piece in the transition that I was going through."
Laura Giosh-Markov
Positive Discipline workshop facilitator, Parent consultant, Counselor, and Music Therapist
"I contacted Rianna, because I was going through a deep down. I was feeling lost, I didn’t know where to start, I was overwhelmed with self-doubt and I had no clarity at all on where to go, or even to start. I resonated with Rianna and was provoked by her way of living her life. Rianna gave me the tools to sit down, work through them and understand why I feel a certain way. Rianna does an amazing way of guiding; very encouraging, supportive, but also challenging."
Maria Kacharava
Support Service Team Leader
Where you will be sleeping
"A unique and empowering experience"
This all-inclusive retreat is only for women who are childless-not-by-choice.
Being childless-not-by-choice is not a one-and-done kind of thing. You don’t get over it and move on. You will still have times when you wish things had turned out differently, especially on days like M-day. That’s ok. It’s ok to grieve the life you didn’t get. It’s ok to be angry. But remember, even though you have to do it all by yourself, you don’t have to do it alone. We’ve got you!
Minimum number of participants is 4 women (max. 7).
After talking to hundreds of women who are childless not by choice, I know that not taking action can leave you stuck in grief for decades, maybe even your whole life. Just existing and not living can lead to anxiety, depression and loneliness. And I believe that life is too freaking short for that!
If you are interested, but can’t make these dates, reach out to me (email: hello@riannahijlkema.com) and I will keep you in the loop on upcoming dates!
If you booked and can’t make these dates, please check the cancellation policy in the terms & conditions and send me an email.
- Passport and other travel documents (please make sure vour passport is current. It’s safest if it expires at least 6 months past your date of return to the US.
- Bug spray and sunscreen/ first aid and medications
- Toiletries/feminine products
- Bathing suit, sunglasses & hat
- Rain poncho (just incase)
- Comfortable summer clothing
- Light sweater for evening
- Comfortable sneakers/ sandals/water shoes for walking (ie not just flip flops)
- Book(s) to read.
- Journal/pen
Having a travel insurance is recommended.
From Cancun International Airport it’s 30 minutes to the Isla Mujeres Ferry. The boat trip is 30-45 minutes. Hotel check-in on Friday is possible after 4pm.
On Monday we will check-out at 11 am and take the 12 pm ferry back to Cancun.
Need help finding the right flight?
Please send an email to me (email: hello@riannahijlkema.com) and I will help you find the best flight, please be sure to send the state/country of departure and all details if you do.
This is an all-inclusive 4D3N experience for: $1749
If you don’t mind sharing your room/bed with another member of our group, and this option is possible, I will give you a $200 discount.
Save your spot now! ($500)
* I want to sleep in a private room!
* I don’t mind sharing my room/bed
Note:
* Payment plans available
* Remaining balance due before April 15th
* EU residents may be subject to VAT
- Connection call (virtual, April 18th at 1 pm New York Time)
- 3 nights accommodation in a private room with sea view & balcony
- Daily three times vegetarian/vegan/regular meals (note: Friday only dinner, Monday only breakfast included)
- Drinks: water & soda
- Daily workshops, group sessions and/or activities
- Transportation from the resort to downtown for lunch, dinner and/or activities
- 2% of your full payment will be donated to support girls and women empowerment initiatives in Nepal
- Integration call (virtual, May 23th at 1 pm New York time)
- Additional requested meals and drinks (except water & soda)
- Airfare, ferry & taxi to and from the resort on Isla Mujeres
- Arrival visa (if applicable)
- Insurance (health & travel)
- Personal expenses (alcohol, souvenirs, etc)
Questions, doubts or something else?
Making such a big investment in yourself is scary. I totally understand.
Please reach out to me at hello@riannahijlkema.com if you have any questions, or book a virtual coffee chat to get a feel of what it would look like to spend time together.
